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Do You Want Better Relationship Skills?

By Timothy J. Ryan, Ph.D. D.Div., PSc.D. on Fri, January 24, 2014



Is Your Relationship in Trouble -

Need More Understanding and Intimacy?

Kids in Trouble - Need More Cooperation?

Health Problems, Symptoms Not Going Away?

Too Much Anxiety and Worry -  Need Stress Relief?

Can't Seem To Resolve Issues, Feeling Stuck - Need To See Progress?

Spiritually Disconnected, Empty - Need Security Peace of Mind?

Feeling Unfulfilled Lacking Joy and Happiness


- Need A Soul Connection to Self and Others?


I believe that how we deal with our relationships is the number one factor contributing to our greater success, happiness and enrichment in life.  I am passionate about teaching individuals and couples Parents and Children the necessary skills to stay safe, stay connected and continually grow and enrich meaningful satisfying relationships.

In my six or twelve week Returning to Love Program, I will support you in a step by step skill training process to teach you A-Z how to resolve conflict and have more aliveness in your relationships.   I teach practical skills you can use right away to improve your communication.  I use the best and most relevant applications from a number of Relationship healing programs such as: Imago Relationship Therapy, by Harville Hendrix Ph.D.; Mars Venus Theory by John Gray; Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. John Gottman and The Enneagram by Don Riso. 

I also introduce you to Energy Healing Practices from EFT, META Healing, Energy Psychology and innovators like Dr. Emoto "Messages From Water"  and Gary Chapman "Love Language" as well as many other state of the art cutting edge leading researchers.

I  love up grading the world by transforming relationships.  individuals and couples become compassionate beneficial presences and up-grade their surroundings by the very nature of their loving meaningful connections.  If you are struggling with any relationship issue, I  can help you to better understand yourself and  learn skills to communicate authentically and compassionately so you have a more meaningful relationship and satisfying life. These skills will transform all aspects of your  present  and future relationship

                                                                              Learn Caring Behaviors

                                                                                     and Stretching

                                                             with Loving Encouragement and Feedback


                                                                              Discover A Doorway to

                                                                                Essence Connection


We're  all seeking

to find Rhythm

 in the madness 



                                                          Creating The Relationship of Your Dreams

                                                                                  Not Your Nightmares



With divorce rates at 51%,  and extreme economic uncertainty, we understand that the human family is in crisis.   Individuals, couples and families are facing severe challenges to financial, emotional, and relationship stability.   It's estimated that 97% of the population want better relationships but only 3% actually have the skills to enjoy meaningful connection.  With increasing stress and uncertainty and limited skills, relationships suffer increasing disconnection and greater  chance of divorce.  The scars of divorce carry on giving the second marriage even higher rates of divorce.   A recent poll in Orange County discovered that over 50% of singles have given up the idea of dating because of repeated disappointment and the conclusion that  "It's too painful."

The most common response when in crisis is to procrastinate.  However, if we procrastinate, we're choosing not to take action and not only are we we're delaying our dreams – maybe for a few years or maybe forever but we are resigning ourselves to accept the relationship we have now is the best it can be and we are reinforcing the habits that keep us stuck in the first place.

We invite individuals, couples, families, and anyone who is receptive to learning and growth, to come in for a counseling session.  You will receive support and coaching to learn principles and skills to transform all aspects of your life and relationship patterns.Unless we acknowledge our relationship needs improvement and we are  willing to invest in learning skills and strategies to change sabotaging patterns we will never have the relationship of our dreams.

                                                           There is an old Chinese proverb that says:
                                                           "If I don't change the direction I am headed,
                                                                       I will end up where I'm going..."



The Gotman research foundation after twenty years of relationship research  has identified the qualities that make a difference in being masters or disasters in relationships.  One of the findings is that "on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they seek help.  This finding suggest that couples who wait risk establishing chronically negative thought and behavior patterns which increase health risks and keep the relationship from growing and resolving issues."

It's common to put off facing what doesn't work for us.  We tell ourselves that we will do something about it when the kids get older or when I get out of debt, when I'm stronger  or perhaps when the kids are grown etc. Relationships often unconsciously reinforce one another to settle for getting by rather than learn how to take the relationship to the next level. 

 The other part of delaying our dreams  is that when we continually procrastinate, we become more and more helpless, we get resigned to our fate maybe forever and we are reinforcing the very habits that keep us from having any chance of gaining the relationship of our dreams.

The ideal time to live our dreams is now.   Unfortunately to step into the life we were meant to have takes the skill of understanding and the ability to remove our blocks or limitations.  To face our limitations takes courage but it's a necessary step to knowing how to get what we want.  To  truly live  our dreams, we must be also connected to our passion.   If we don't get support to overcome our our past and present fears and limiting beliefs, we will only repeat the same mistakes and end up in the same situation again and again.   With support and skill training we to open the doors to self understanding, self connection, and self healing, we expand into a new awareness of our self free of any restraints and we become who we learn how to give and receive the love we were truly meant to have in our relationships.


Don't let another day go by reinforcing helplessness and self sabotaging relationship habits.  Now is the time to learn how to get and receive the love.  Make an investment in yourself that you are  truly worthy of learning skills to be the best you and have the best relationship ever.

The time to do it is today when you're most able to  enjoy it.   As we get older we get more entrenched  in our set ways and dysfunctional habits.  The time to be free is now.  Have the relationship of your dreams not your nightmares,  before it's too late.

 Nothing changes if nothing changes.  It's important to take some action  and learn how to communicate authentically and create a passionate relationship.  We  teach you concrete skills how to resolve conflict and commit to a vision that works for both of you.   You will get step by step support on how to take your relationship to the next level. Join us today and learn concrete skills you can use right away to be successful.  Understand where your are in your life and make note of where you want to be


                                                             Healing in One Area Usually Translates

                                                                      Into Healing in Other Areas

                                                                                 Of Your Life

Once you are willing to address the conflict, you can transform all your relationship patterns.  All the energy you've held back and repressed will be available for you to fully express your highest good for you and your partner.  You can use your conflict to be a doorway to unmet needs and grow in understanding how to better meet each others needs.

In our Returning to Love Program we teach you  skills to authentically self connect and express your needs honesty through the practice of compassionate dialoguing as well as better understanding of feelings and needs of your partner.


                                                     At AIWP, We Support Couples and Individuals

                                                             To Discover that Conflict Can Open

                                                                 The Doors To Greater Intimacy.


In just a few sessions you will understand your challenges from a completely different point of view.   You will learn how to overcome defensive reactions and understand the root causes of your problems.


You will have the skills you need to overcome conflict and transform your negative energy into positive energy and your disconnection into connection.  You will learn skills to make your relationship a safe place to better understand each others love language and discover better ways to support each other.  

We offer you a safe, relaxed and comfortable setting to learn powerful trans formative conflict resolution and intimacy enrichment skills to continually improve your relationship on your own.

In our step by step skill training program, you will learn how to listen empathically and and better understand the real issues.  You will have strategies to be  more proactive with successful behavior patterns which allow you to have a more meaningful satisfying partnership. 

By the end of the program you and your partner will have tools to create more understanding, aliveness, and meaningful connection. You will begin to realize the relationship of your dreams not your nightmares.


                                                                We Are Excited to Offer Principles and Skills

                                                                            That Are Ahead of Their Time


Skills include practices from Eckhart Tolle- Presence Process, . N.L.P META Communication and Excellence, Emotionally Focus Therapy - Sue Johnson,  Nonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg,Ph.D, Imago Relationship Therapy - Harville Hendrix, Ph.D,  Energy Psychology Couples Therapy  and various other practical modalities that have research backing and have proven to be effective such as John Gray Mars and Venus Counseling Principles and understanding male and female biology.




In the Advance Returning to Love Program, we teach you how to understand your conflict as an expression of childhood wounds and unmet needs. You learn that every upset has a percentage of the past in it.   


You will continue to practice compassionate listening skills and learn how to be self /other connected to underlying needs.  You will  learn how to  use the Presence Process to create a calming effect for you and your partner.


You will also discover your soul contract with your partner and learn how to heal and  integrate your lost disowned parts to  to return to wholeness. By the end of the program, you will know each others love language and discover that needs are never in conflict. 


The result of practicing the  principles and skills of the program will open a portal to develop greater pleasure and intimacy that comes from compassionate connecting.  The time to begin healing and enriching your relationship is now.  Join us and learn skills and concrete action steps to take your relationship to the next level. 


We Offer You a Safe Place

                To Recognize the Real Issues

                                   And Learn What To Do About It


The goal of the program is to support you to have concrete skills that you can use you can use right away to have a deeper more meaningful connection and experience grater joy and satisfaction in your relationship.  By the end of the program you will have gained the safety to trust to better understand and have confidence to know how to give and receive love with each other.




We also teach you how to reconnect to your natural state of joy based on your knowing your own and each others wholeness.  "Nothing can be added or taken away when Love is your only Source."   We define mental health asknowing and being in connection to a state of   Peace, Assurance, Gratitude, and Love. 




Timothy J. Ryan, Ph.D. D.Div

 Diplomate American Psychotherapy Association

Diplomate Pastoral Medical Association

Diplomate American Association for Integrative Medicine

Board Certified Relationship Expert and Professional Counselor

 Skilled Facilitator in Healing and Enriching Relationships


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Individuals, and Couples, Parents and Children may receive coaching one on one or as a family.  You may also receive skill training in a weekend workshop or on-going support group with others.  Emphasis is on Understanding, Integration, and Application of key principles and skills while being safe to be accepted where you are in the learning process. 

 With support and practice, puzzling aspects of your relationships patterns will become clear. You will not only recognize your patterns but will know what to do about them.  You will gain greater confidence, clarity, and ability to work through  things that were before only painful and confusing to you.




In our Returning to Love Skills Training Program, we teach you A to Z everything you need to be successful within your self and within your relationships.  We first teach you to focus on what you want not on what you don't want. 

We teach you the skills to remove block to giving and receiving love to connect you to your passion and aliveness becoming your best self and having your best relationships ever.   We offer you the tools you need to free yourself and enrich yourself to move to the next level. 

We offer you the tools you need to free yourself from limiting beliefs and habit patterns and support you with concrete skills to move forward to the next level.

Whether it's learning Advanced Communication skills for more meaningful relationships or skills to heal child hood wounds, we give you the support you need to become more intentional to make progress and see results right away. You will have personal and relationship understanding tools to help you become your best self and have your best relationship ever.





 We teach you the skills to remove blocks that you may unconsciously engage in that sabotage you from being your best self. We teach you to be present to your natural ability to give and receive love. We show you how to connect with your passion and aliveness and teach you language skills of the heart to become your best self and enjoy your best relationship ever.

The Returning to Love Program has everything you need to help you: (1) Learn Advanced Communication skills, (2) Heal child hood wounds which underlie your repeated conflicts; (3) Gain insight into each other’s Love Language to create more pleasure and affection;  (4) Create a solid foundation of safety for greater intimacy with better skills of understanding and compassion;  (5) Create more confidence to empower your relationship with follow through requests for  accountability and increased trust for a better partnership.  

                                                                                   JOIN US


                                                        LEARN THE PRINCIPLES AND PRACTICES OF;

                                                                    COMPASSIONATE DIALOGUE

                                                LEARN HOW TO USE CONFLICT TO BECOME CLOSER

                                                                       FRUSTRATION DIALOGUE

                                                         UNDERSTAND EACH OTHERS LOVE LANGUAGE

                                                 AND ONCE AND FOR ALL HEAL CHILDHOOD WOUNDS
                                            THAT KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP FROM MOVING FORWARD

We are committed to bringing singles, couples, parents and children, the latest research and skill training principles and techniques to remove barriers to love, heal and enrich relationships and promote conscious intentional living.

We believe that through education and counseling in understanding the nature of conflict and building confidence in conflict resolution skills, individuals and couples, parents and children repair troubled relationships, They can build a structure of ease and stability with everyone's needs mattering and return to a love which remains strong and healthy.

                                                              Love is perfect attention.
                                                           Love is perfect connection. 

                                                                Love is perfect energy

                                                            And for the energy system,
                                                             love is the ultimate healing

                                                                   Silvia Hartman, Ph.D.


In our Returning to Love Skill Training Program for singles and couples, you learn new ways to connect, meet basic needs and use conflict as a means for personal and spiritual growth. This results in greater safety and increased capacity for compassion, intimacy, personal and spiritual growth. We teach skills to help you connect to heart language (Feelings and Needs) and learn how to become co-healers for a more loving relationship. Yes, even conflict can actually bring you closer together if you know how to listen and authentically express you own truth.

  1. Dr Ryan will support and guide you in a step-by-step learning process.
  2. You will learn skills that you can use right away for greater personal growth, healing and relationship enrichment.
  3. You will learn how to develop the innate spiritual potential of your relationship.
  4. You will discover how a healing compassionate connection to your partner and yourself connects you to the transcendent.



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Are you hungry for skills to improve the quality of your relationships?

Would You Like to speak so that others will listen?

Would you like to listen so that others will talk?

We can show you how.

Call today for a free phone get acquainted twenty minute session.  949-250-1423


Our Returning to Love Program for Couples and Singles, Parents and Children teaches you how to listen in ways to truly be understood. Instead of listening in an effort to win arguments, you will learn to listen with Compassionate Presence, based on principles of Non violent Communication (NVC) practices and the principles. You will also recognize your relationship as a soul contract not a mistake and learn practices from Imago Relationship Healing and Shadow Work to help you return to your wholeness.  Call today for a free phone get acquainted twenty minute session.  949-250-1423



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  • AIWP Miracles Ministry, a 501 (c) (3) non-profit healing, counseling and charitable organization since 1994.   AIWP Miracles Ministry was founded to  Remove Barriers to Love, Heal and Enrich Relationships and Promote Conscious Intentional Living for a More Compassionate World.   Our goal is to bring you the latest most powerful, individual and relationship mind, body, spirit healing, enrichment and integration principles and skills available. AIWP is dedicated to energizing the well being of the whole person.  It's  main focus and mission statement to improve Health and Wellness, Heal and Enrich Relationships and promote Spiritual Awakening and Compassionate Living.  Our mission simply stated is to help you  increase your ability to give and receive love. Become a member and/or donate to our cause.  All Tax Donations are tax deductible to the extent allowed by law.    AIWP Miracles Ministry offers community service seminars and energy healing, self empowerment and relationship healing training.      see      


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Timothy Ryan Ph.D. D.Division. Receives 2013 Best Family Counselor  Award For Newport Beach

Newport Beach BEST FAMILY COUNSELOR Award Program Honors Dr. Timothy Ryan for His Achievements NEWPORT BEACH October 5, 2013 -- Timothy Ryan Ph.D. D.Division. has been selected for the 2013 Best of Newport Beach Award in the Family Counseling category by the Newport Beach Award Program. Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2013 Newport Beach Award Program focuses on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the Newport Beach Award Program and data provided by third parties.

For more information Dr. Timothy Ryan  Marriage Friendly Therapists Dr. Timothy Ryan is a licensed Newport Beach, CA marriage counselor and experienced couples therapist. Learn more about this Newport Beach couples counselor. 

Timothy J Ryan, Ph.D. D.Div. has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and Divinity.  He Holds Diplomate status at the American Psychotherapy Association, The American Association for Integrative Medicine and The Pastoral Medical Association as well as others. He is a Certified Health and Wellness Counselor and Licensed Minister and Licensed Pastoral Psychotherapist and Pastoral Marriage Family Counselor.  He is also Board Certified in many Transformational Healing and Empowering Techniques including: META Health and META Healing Practitioner, Hypnosis Instructor, Relationship Expert, and N.L.P. Trainer. 

He is a Certified Matrix Reimprinting Practitioner and EFT Master Practitioner.  He has been the Director, Counselor and Workshop Facilitator for AIWP Miracles Ministry since 1994.   He is also certified in many leading state of the art transformational techniques.including Hypnotherapy, Health and Wellness and Meridian Therapies Training.  He Practices as a Licensed Pastoral Psychotherapist and  is a Board Certified Holistic Integrative META Healing Practitioner. For more information  see Dr. Timothy Ryan WEB SITE  and AIWP MIRACLES MINISTRY

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